This is the question I keep coming back to


26 February 2026 - Issue #024

Hey Reader,

I'll say this with very little hesitation: this week I wrote my favourite article so far.

The one I wish I had read many years ago, long before I ever thought about becoming a retreat strategist.

The one I will return to when I feel myself second-guessing something that matters.

The one I will probably send to friends too, because it reaches far beyond retreats.

I wrote it the same week I confirmed the venue for a retreat I'm co-creating in Bali later this year.

As I was shaping the experience, I could feel how easy it would have been to soften certain elements, to make the concept a little wider, a little safer.

And that is exactly what the article is about.

Not just the way we design retreats, but the way we design our lives.

The way we sometimes make decisions without fully listening to our intuition, our desires, our ambitions, because fear feels louder and more convincing than possibility.

This one is for retreat leaders.

It is also for anyone who has ever made themselves smaller than they needed to be.


From the Blog

If You Knew You Couldn’t Fail, What Retreat Would You Create?

When I look at most retreats in the industry, I see caution. I feel the desire to protect ourselves from disappointment, financial strain, or public vulnerability and retreats that stop being an expression of what you truly want to create.

This article is not an invitation to ignore reality or design from fantasy. It is an invitation to examine whether the structure underneath your retreat is strong enough to hold the real vision, rather than forcing the vision to shrink so it fits your current level of safety.

What's Stirring

I don't think there has ever been a moment in my life when I have felt more proud and grateful to be a woman.

As an Italian who loves sport with a slightly irrational passion, watching the Winter Olympics unfold over the past weeks excited me in so many ways.

Seeing women dominate the headlines not just for medals, but for resilience, integrity and unapologetic presence felt special.

From Alysa Liu returning to a sport she once walked away from only to do it her way and win an incredible gold medal, to Eileen Gu holding her ground in the face of criticism and laughing in the face of an absurd question, to Federica Brignone coming back from the worst injury of her life and standing on the highest step again, and doing it twice in a week. The image of fellow medalists bowing to her is my favourite moment of this year's Olympics.

On the most competitive stage in the world, these women showed respect, admiration, reverence, recognition.

And I feel like the Olympics simply magnified what I already witness in my own life.

The women I work with and surround myself with show that same resilience and depth in quieter ways.

They build businesses, hold families, reinvent themselves, navigate heartbreak, change careers.

They lead and rise.

They fall and get up.

They show up for the people they love and they do it with grace and care and intention.

This is one of the reasons the retreats I co-create are specifically for women.

There is something profoundly powerful that happens when women gather intentionally.

When the noise of roles and expectations fades a little.

When we sit together and speak about our dreams without immediately filtering them, when vulnerability and ambition are allowed to coexist.

Earlier today I shared a Reel on Instagram asking women what comes to mind, and more importantly what they feel, when they hear the words “women-only retreat.”

I asked for honesty rather than a polished answer.

The first image.

The first emotion.

The unfiltered association.

I want to extend that same invitation to you.

When you hear those words, what surfaces?


Retreat Radar


Reformer Pilates Retreat in Ibiza

Ibiza, Spain | 27–30 August and 24–27 September 2026

Just four guests, paired reformer sessions, and a programme designed with the kind of attention that only feels possible when the group is this small. Marie-Laure has built something deliberately intimate here - the work is precise, progressive, and personal.

The days move between reformer sessions, guided hikes along the coastline, Ayurvedic massages, refreshing swims, and sunset paddle boarding excursions. Together, these elements create a seamless harmony between invigorating fitness and serene relaxation, all set against Ibiza's breathtaking island landscape.

Designing from fear can feel responsible.

It gives us the illusion of control and protection.

It allows us to believe we are being realistic.

Designing from vision requires something more vulnerable.

It asks us to trust ourselves before there is external validation.

It asks us to honour what we truly want to create, even when the safer option is right there.

The women who moved me this week, whether on Olympic podiums or in my everyday life, did not achieve what they did by making themselves more digestible.

They showed up fully in their ambition, their strength, their complexity.

Retreat leadership is not separate from that.

The spaces we design reflect the relationship we have with our own desires.

If you knew you could not fail, what would you allow yourself to create?

What life would you live?

Hit reply and let me know!

Ciao ciao,

Milla

P.S. Hosting a retreat, event, or programme soon? I'd love to feature it in Retreat Radar. Just hit reply with the details (where, when, what makes it special). It's free and open to everyone in this community 😊


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